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Chapter 3, Leading by Example

What makes a good kitchen leader?


A good kitchen leader stands at the pass, tastes everything, fixes what is wrong with their own hands and asks more of themselves than of anyone on the line. The brigade copies what the chef does, so the chef's visible daily discipline becomes the kitchen's standard.

The chefs I interviewed run kitchens with three Michelin stars and kitchens with one, in Alba, Copenhagen, Los Angeles and Kruishoutem, and they describe the leadership of a kitchen in almost physical terms. A good kitchen leader is the one the brigade can see working. Enrico Crippa of Piazza Duomo, whose kitchen is among the most disciplined in Europe, told me he has always thought of leadership as a form of teaching and of being engaged. Then he asked the question that the whole chapter turns on.

“How can I ask my team to sacrifice if I don’t get my own hands dirty?” Enrico Crippa, Piazza Duomo, Alba

Start with where the chef stands. The pass is the narrow strip of steel where every plate pauses before it leaves the kitchen, and the chef who is there during service is there to see. A temperature six degrees too cool. The body language of a saucier whose station is starting to slide. The third spoonful of the same sauce that evening, and whether it tastes the way the first one did. The chef who is not at the pass is nearly always the chef whose kitchen is about to slip. Being at the pass is the kitchen equivalent of the general manager walking the lobby, and the brigade registers the choice every night.

Then there are the small corrections. A chef who notices a young cook has set up his mise in the wrong order, switches two containers and slides the lemon to the right without a word, has taught that cook something he will carry for the rest of his career. Niki Nakayama of n/naka in Los Angeles described the importance of everyone in the kitchen sharing the same understanding of why they are doing the work. That understanding does not arrive by memo. It arrives through repeated, observed gestures: the chef who tastes every dish, who fixes the mise, who stays forty minutes after service to go over one failure. Each gesture is almost too small to notice. Across a year they are the culture of the kitchen.

A good kitchen leader is also visibly harder on themselves than on anyone else. Peter Goossens, then chef and owner of Hof van Cleve in Belgium, spent four decades behind the pass and described the demand without softening it.

“This profession demands that you give 300 percent of yourself. The best is never enough. Every day you need to be critical to perform even better.” Peter Goossens, then chef and owner of Hof van Cleve, Kruishoutem

The point is credibility. A chef who asks less of themselves than of the cooks has stopped leading, and the cooks have already noticed. Crippa frames the same discipline more gently. The aim, he told me, is to do better today than yesterday and better tomorrow than today, and he includes his own work in that daily audit. A chef who can hold that posture without it turning into anxiety shows the line how to hold it too.

Finally, a good kitchen leader manages their own mood before walking in. Matthew Orlando, then chef and owner of Amass in Copenhagen, told me that a leader needs to be more motivated than the team, and that stress and fatigue cannot be visible to the staff. He was describing presence rather than performance. The chef who is loud during service because that is what they think a chef looks like is read correctly by the brigade within a week, and after that the cooks will do what they are told without ever truly following.

Chapter 3, Leading by Example, sets these kitchen practices beside their hotel equivalents, and then turns to the harder moves: admitting error in front of the team and holding the standard when a crisis arrives.